i am definitely improving.
here is the excellent roissy facebook breakup story, part 1 and part 2.
in my opinion, the only answer is no response. and you know what? it reminds me of exactly the way i now treat models who flake out last minute on photo shoots.
i just simply don’t reply.
that is the only way to handle that kind of situation with dignity. not even. let me rephrase. it is the simple way that an alpha handles a situation that is near meaningless to him.
just slides right off.
it reminds me of when mia canceled on me, and i wrote back “no problem”, i now see how wrong that was.
no reply, baby.
no reply.
she is not even worth your effort.
she is like a penny that you dropped on a busy sidewalk. is it worth your effort to bend down, look for it, attempt to find it and pick it up off the grimy streets.
nah.
just keep on moving, keep on strutting your stuff. it’s forgotten almost as soon as it happens.
just slides right off.
no reply.
anyway, here is gorbachev’s explanation. he nails it:
Reaction = beta. The alpha male with options galore doesn’t sweat any one break-up. Since women subconsciously know this about alpha males, they get flustered when their break-up messages to men they deemed beta generate nothing but indifference. They begin to wonder what is up, if perhaps they made a mistake in judgement of the man’s character.
I am now addressing the male readers of this blog who have experience dating three or more women at once. I have done it many times. Look back at those times and recall your reaction when one of the women tried to break up with you over a voicemail message or email. You grabbed your phone to read the heartfelt break-up text or listen to the pained vmail and, if you were like me, you muttered “yeah yeah yeah…” and deleted the message, never bothering to reply. You did this because YOU REALLY DID NOT CARE if one of your ladies fell through the cracks.
To my beta readers: THAT is the attitude you must strive to incorporate into every fiber of your manly essence. You really DO NOT CARE. And what does an utterly indifferent man do when he gets a long-winded overly dramatic break-up text from a chick in his rotation?
Nothing.
i am getting better.
Dumping someone by email or text really shows bad social skills and should not be rewarded by a text (though I still have i ingrained in me to be ‘polite’ so I would acknowledge), OTOH if the other person has been blowing hot & cold & not contacting you much, I can understand why someone may do it.
I think it’s number 2 behind disappearing though. That is the lowest thing anyone can do.
If I was doing a video and the person Im waiting for cancelled at last minute, I would respond for sure, with something along the lines of:
– you irresponsible little rat
– you gotta be kidding
– fuck you
– Im disappointed
– not happy about this
– oh really.
– you fucking cunt.
etc
not wanting to show anger is beta. keeping it silent when someone misbehaves is more of a way to control oneself, than it is a way to handle the situation so it doesnt happen again.
not answering is more passive aggressive than showing anger, thus more weak, beta, girly, etc
as always, you have given me a lot to think about.
I think fuck you etc are a bit extreme. Better to say something than keep it silent. And someone should be told if they are being unprofessional.
Someone work connected just sent me a stupid email (very self important) and I called them out on it, but in an amusing way. Well, I think it was amusing. Then again, I don’t care if they or the people ccd on the email (I did reply to all) think it’s amusing or not. I’m indifferent.
Flakey models lol Way to make it to the catwalk, baby.